Tuesday, January 27, 2009

Good Men are Hard to Find: Ladies it may NOT be your FAULT

I know alot of women think that most men aren't worth the air they breathe, due largely to negative experieces they've had. A lot of women also feel like they may never find the right guy for them. These same women have probably analyzed themselves over and over again in an attempt to find out why they keep getting into these ill relationships. A good majority of those females come up short after the analysis and still cannot explain why their relationships have not been working. I'm here today to tell those women to SEARCH NO MORE, for I have your answer. Well, Jay-Z gave it to me actually.

You see ladies, the fault is not your own, nor is that of those "no good" men tht you've been dating. ALL of the blame belongs to your father. Yes! Your father is completely to blame for all (or at least most) of your ill fated relationships. It's simple, in a little song called Beach Chair on the Kingdom Come album, Jay-Z explains his worries about this very issue: "...I got demons in my past, so I gotta daughters on the way. If the prophecy's correct then the child shall have to pay, for the sins of her father, so I barter my tommorrows against my yesterdays and hope she'll be ok..."

There you have it plain in simple. Your dads were probably havin a ball out in college or something partying it up being big time players and didnt stop to think how they would feel if some loser guy did all of those same things to his own daughter. Thus, along came you, and apparently the prophecy is correct. Now, I'm not sure how to resolve the problem, maybe you should confront your fathers if possible, or something to that effect.

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

I kinda agree with you, but if you did not grow up with your father some of the blame goes to you AND your mother. Since your father wasn't around you may have relied on the positive and negative relationships that your mother may have had. But still, women should not go around blaming anyone for failed relationships.

Anonymous said...

totally went over her head.