Soooooo, this week's SWAVOR is more of a concept than a person, place, or product. My BFF and I have found ourselves saying this alot lately: "You aint gotta lie to kick it." What does this mean? Basically, if you enjoy someone's company and y'all already kickin it, then why lie about anything. Chances are if you can manage to just keep it real with this person, then everything's gonna be cool. All you need is this person's respect and lying will lose it everytime. A word of advice to everyone reading this: If you're keeping something a "secret" from this other person, 9.9 times out of 10 they're going to find out anyway, and you are always better off telling them up front. Don't assume that by telling them the truth that you will lose them, but I can GUARANTEE you that you will lose them by lying. Even if this lie or untruth seems relatively small, it has great potential to ruin any relationship. That is because it reprsents something much larger. It says that if you would lie about something so trivial, there is no telling what else you would lie about. PLEASE PEOPLE, be 100 about your endeavors. It will make your life MUCH easier and alot LESS stressful. Trust me.
With that said, the Swavor of this week is : "You ain't gotta lie to kick it!"
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